Hey everyone, My name’s Eric, and I’m a full-time correctional officer, a proud single father, and now… a guy trying to figure out how to date again in a world full of apps, awkward small talk, and way too many “hey” messages. My name’s Eric, and I’m a full-time correctional officer, a proud single father, and now… a guy trying to figure out how to date again in a world full of apps, awkward small talk, and way too many “hey” messages. My day job? It’s intense. Working in a correctional facility demands everything — patience, mental strength, and constant awareness. You learn to read people fast, stay calm under pressure, and put on armor — both literally and emotionally. But when I clock out, I go from managing cell blocks to managing snack time, homework, and bedtime stories. My daughter is my world, and being a dad is the most important title I’ll ever carry. The truth is, I haven’t made much time for myself in a long time. Between long shifts, parenting responsibilities, and just trying to stay afloat, dating took a backseat. But lately, I’ve been thinking — maybe it’s time. Not just to meet someone, but to rediscover who I am outside the uniform and the dad hat. To laugh more, to open up again, and yeah, maybe go on a few awkward-but-hopeful coffee dates. This blog isn’t just about dating though. It’s about real life. The messy, exhausting, funny, and sometimes emotional journey of a man balancing duty, fatherhood, and personal growth. I’ll be sharing my experiences — the good, the bad, the downright cringeworthy — and I hope it resonates with others walking a similar path. So, whether you’re here out of curiosity, support, or because you’re in the same boat, welcome. Let’s see where this journey takes us.